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We Need Compassion More Than Ever

I am one of many lawyers who struggle with depression. I say “many” because according to the 2016  Hazelden Betty Ford/ABA study, 28 percent of …

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It’s Ok To Have A Good Cry

I am the “crier” in the family. I wear it all on my sleeve. I shed tears at movie trailers. A few notes of music …

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Dealing With Regret

I am often asked if I have “regrets” about my past and my behavior in active addiction. If I could turn back the clock, would …

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Reality Show Therapy: Why I Said No To Dr. Phil

In 2012, I was approached by one of the show’s producers to appear on a segment related to my struggle with Body Dysmorphic Disorder(BDD).  A …

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Reflections At Thirteen Years Sober

On April 8th I celebrated my abstinence-based, thirteen years in long term recovery from alcohol, cocaine, and bulimia (Yes, males develop eating disorders). I reflect …

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Coping With Mortality Anxiety

I recently rolled out of bed, after a good night’s sleep, which have become harder to come by during this pandemic. With the exception of …

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Loneliness Is Spiking: Pledge To Lend An Ear

More than ever, we need to be there for our colleague’s friends and loved ones.  There is a huge difference between solitude by choice and …

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Dealing With Social Isolation

Feelings of social isolation are an issue common to law students and lawyers, not to mention people in active addiction. Social isolation can also be …

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Responsible Recovery In Pandemic Times

**This is not ideal mutual aid support, but these are not ideal times. If you absolutely have to attend recovery meetings in person, it is …

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Fifteen Years Ago, I Wanted To Die

It’s a cool and overcast February afternoon as I turn my car into the parking lot of Green Oaks Hospital. Fifteen years ago, my brothers …

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The Legal Profession’s 12-Step Problem

When I began my drug and alcohol recovery in 2007, my therapist provided two options, 12-step or residential treatment.  I chose the former and along …

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Creating Compassionate Community in the Legal Profession

People, for the most part, want to be part of a community, especially a compassionate one. We want to belong to something greater than ourselves. …

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